The Three Ds That Will Make or Break Your Blogging Career - Desire

Painting miniatures.
Photo by brilliantdandy.

In a few years this blog will be two years old. In internet terms, it’s not young anymore, and nobody would consider me a ‘new’ blogger. Now that the buzz of being discovered and rapid growth is moving into a new stage of maintaining and trying to build upon what has already been established, I’ve started to reflect on some of the insights I’ve gained through the successes and failures I’ve experienced as a blogger.

At its most basic, I believe what it takes to reach your full potential as a blogger is split into three key areas, or what I call ‘The Three Ds’. Like me, you’ll probably find that you’re strong in some areas and weak in others - and if you’re not hitting the goals you would like, it is probably these weaknesses that are holding you back.

I hope that you will go beyond reading the theme word of the post and assuming you know what it means, to digging deeper into the content. You might find some unconventional tips and ideas inside!

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  • Published On Jun. 22, 2009 by skellie
  • How to Find Your Hidden Talent


    Photo by vramak.

    In the past hidden talents have commonly been defined as things you are great at but nobody knows about, or things that you would be immediately great at if you tried them, skipping beginner and progressing to intermediate in an instant. The first definition is useful mainly in movies, the latter is not really useful at all (arguably more myth than reality).

    Your hidden talents are the things you could do that would make you happy. But you don’t know it yet.

    This is not just about work, but speaks to the whole content of your life. I’ve already written about the psychological evidence that shows that when people do work or activities that make them feel good and involve skills, either mental or physical, live happier lives.

    This is just common sense, and it’s probably nothing you haven’t already heard before. But I don’t think many people actually take the next step and give themselves the opportunity to discover all of their hidden talents.

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  • Published On May. 19, 2009 by skellie
  • 30 Days to Become a Freelancer

    Become a freelancer.
    Photo by Sidi Guariach.

    If you’ve ever thought about freelancing part-time but never done it, this post may help you. Most people never follow through on those thoughts because they are overwhelmed and confused by the process of starting a freelance business. The aim of this post is to provide a step-by-step guide to launching a part-time freelance business in 30 days, going from zero to taking on your first client.

    The format for this challenge was inspired by the excellent 31 Days to Build a Better Blog program, which concluded recently. I really like this approach because it offers concrete, practical steps with a measurable result. Sometimes ‘do this, do that’ advice is more useful than theory. My hope is that you can follow the steps here, putting one foot ahead of the other, and find yourself with a little freelance business at the end of the process!

    The program is designed to be completed while you are working full-time, either by dedicating a couple of hours in the evening or mornings, or working on the program over the weekend. It should be combined with daily hands-on practice in the skill you want to freelance in, particularly if you are a novice in that skill. If you are a novice, don’t delay the program until you feel you are ‘good’ enough. The emphasis is on selling a very specific skill that you can become good at in a short period of time. 30 days practicing one hour a day is more than enough time to develop a specific service that you are good enough at to sell.

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  • Published On May. 08, 2009 by skellie
  • Tutorial: How to Write a Viral-ready Article in 2 Hours Flat

    How to write a viral post
    Photo by Dreamscape Photographs.

    Viral articles are game-changing content that can fling your blog, website or portfolio into the stratosphere. Viral articles get links, retweets, social media votes, comments and lots of traffic. The success of a viral article is usually followed by a powerful subscriber jump. Once you learn the strategy to create viral content, things will never be the same.

    In this post I want to show you how to create a viral-ready post, customized to your niche, in exactly two hours. This is a plan anyone can follow. If you have some spare time now I urge you to read this article and then set aside a couple of hours to follow the steps outlined here. If you’re short of time, bookmark this post and come back to it when you next sit down to write. I’m confident that the final result of this exercise will be one of the most popular content items you’ve ever created.

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  • Published On May. 02, 2009 by skellie
  • Find Your ‘Flow’ and the Money Will Follow

    Finding your flow to make money.
    Photo by muha...

    The well-worn phrase “Do what you love and the money will follow” leaves a lot to be desired. Even if you could get paid to watch episodes of LOST (you can’t), you’d probably yearn for more rewarding work.

    There is a marked difference between things you love that could make money and things you love that won’t. As a general rule, if it helps you enter a ‘Flow state’, it’s a winner. If it doesn’t, it won’t make for gratifying or lucrative work.

    ‘Flow’ (see Wikipedia page), a psychological phenomenon, is how you feel when performing a task that absorbs 100% of your focus. Time seems to run faster while in a flow state - hours can pass without notice because you are too focused to care about the passing of time. If you stop and think about it, I’m sure you can think of one activity that makes you feel this way, whether it’s writing a blog post, web design, exercising or developing new business ideas.

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  • Published On Apr. 29, 2009 by skellie
  • For the Next 7 Days, Stop Trying to Get New Readers

    Finding new readers.
    Photo by A Chilling Soul.

    Seriously. For 7 days, don’t do any link-building or guest-posting. Don’t leave comments on other blogs. Don’t tweet your stuff. Don’t do SEO. Don’t do a single action intended to bring a new reader to your blog.

    You can keep posting as usual, but that should be the extent of your marketing.

    Do I want to show you that writing good content is all you need to grow your blog’s readership? Nope, that’s not it. It’s also not true.

    So what am I getting at?

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  • Published On Apr. 16, 2009 by skellie
  • 5 Content Strategies That Top Bloggers Use + 3 Things That Set Them Apart


    Photo by Tony Frissell, 1947.

    When I’m in a healthy blogging mindset, I write long posts every few days. I’ve tried short and newsy in the past, but have realized I’m no Seth Godin. If I’m going to say something important and useful, I need plenty of words to do so. That’s the style that works for me, but it won’t work for everyone.

    By studying some of the bloggers I admire I’ve realized that there are five dominant content ’strategies’ they use, and that each one is very different from the others. This is good news, because it means that there is (mostly) no right or wrong way to do content. I’ll talk more about that ‘mostly’ caveat later.

    Despite the many differences, the similarities are more telling. I think I’ve been able to work-out some factors that are must-haves for your content. Without them, you simply can’t grow your blog into a niche leader.

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  • Published On Apr. 11, 2009 by skellie
  • Create a Word-of-Mouth Rush with ‘Street-teams’

    word of mouth strategy
    Photo by notsogoodphotography.

    For a number of years bands have been using the web to create ’street-teams’ - exclusive groups that turn fans into promoters. In exchange for spreading the word about the band, fans in ’street-teams’ would get early notice about ticket sales, discounts on merchandise and other bonuses.

    This might seem irrelevant to the usual scope of this blog, but I think the ’street-team’ concept can be powerfully adapted to building your own audience in areas far outside the music industry. By giving your biggest fans the tools to spread the word about you and rewarding them for doing so, you can create a powerful grassroots promotional machine for your work.

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  • Published On Apr. 08, 2009 by skellie
  • Short Spark: How to Say ‘No’ While Helping a Friend

    Online networking tips
    Photo by Gaetan Lee.

    If you have an online audience of any size you are often going to be asked for help and advice. You might be at the point where you can assist everyone who asks, but if your audience keeps growing this state will eventually pass you by.

    Or, you might already be finding it difficult to help everyone and regularly forced to say the dreaded ‘No’ word. You worry: are you losing a potential customer or client in the process? More importantly, are you making someone feel crappy?

    There is a way to turn the experience into a positive for both people. Next time you have to say ‘No’, recommend someone else to help.

    Make this someone you know online (or offline) or someone you would like to get to know. Not only are you giving the person a helpful recommendation, you’re potentially sending a new client (or reader, or viewer) someone’s way. Do this enough and they will want to start repaying the favor.

    Just remember: ask for a “tell him/her I sent you.”

    It’s a neat form of networking and a good thing to do.


  • Published On Apr. 04, 2009 by skellie
  • Why No-one is a Social Media Expert

    Social media expert.
    Photo by mikebaird.

    The term ’social media expert’ has been the subject of a lot of talk and a lot of controversial articles lately. People have written about the different types of social media expert, whether it’s OK to call yourself a social media expert and outlined who they believe are (and are not) experts in social media.

    The term has never been more commonly used. This is probably because an entire industry has bubbled up around people creating businesses and services springing from their claimed expertise in social media. There are a lot of good people in this industry and there is a lot of good work being done.

    What I’d like to do in this post, though, is get people thinking about whether it is actually possible to be a ’social media expert’. As the title of this post suggest, I believe it isn’t. Here’s why.

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  • Published On Apr. 04, 2009 by skellie